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A tree fell on the garage.

That's not a metaphor. An actual tree, an actual garage, and two people in the middle of a divorce who just wanted the whole thing — house, tree, marriage — to go away.

The property had good bones and a solid neighborhood. But with $84,400 in needed repairs, a mortgage still on it, and two people whose cooperation window was closing by the week, the conventional path wasn't going to work.

We looked at three options.

Maximum Allowable Offer math put us at $160,600. To cover their mortgage we'd need to go to $220,000 — leaving an estimated profit of $17,400 before cost of capital. That's not a deal. That's a participation trophy.

We purchase for $250,000, hand them $30,000 at closing — $15,000 each — and take over the existing payments. Neither of them was buying another home in the near term, so leaving the mortgage in their names wasn't the obstacle it might otherwise be.

Their payment was $1,354. Market rent was $2,500. Net cash flow before management, maintenance and CapEx: $1,146. Net-net, call it $800 a month.

Hold three years, sell at $380,000.

Rental income: $28,800. Sale profit: roughly $125,000. Total: $153,000 on $70,000 invested over three years. Annualized ROI: 72%.

Not bad. We thought the immediate cash would appeal to them. But they liked Option 3 better, and in fact it was better ROI for us.

Same purchase structure — $270,000, option, lease from them for the $1,354 payment — they would make $20,000 more but would have to wait up to a year for it. We would then lease it to a tenant-buyer with a one-year option to purchase at $385,000. Option consideration: $10,000, with $5,000 applicable toward purchase. They chose this option.

We put $40,000 into the garage repair and light interior updates.

Here's how it actually played out:

Buyer #1 paid the $10,000 option, then transferred jobs three months in and walked away. Forfeited the option money — that's how it works.

Buyer #2 paid another $10,000, had three credit items to clean up, and closed in six months. The market went flat — appraisal came in at $350,000 — so no appreciation gain. But we still had $100,000 on the spread.

Final tally:

Total profit: $65,000. Annualized ROI: 240%.

We only presented Options 2 and 3. The sellers chose Option 3 — they wanted their money within a year rather than "sometime down the road," even though it meant zero cash at closing. Sometimes people going through divorce prefer immediate cash and relief. This wan’t one of those times.

The lesson isn't that Lease/Option always wins. It's that the right option depends on who's sitting across the table and what they actually need. Read the people as carefully as you read the numbers. And when you present options, present the ones that will work for you.

Here's a scenario. Think through how you'd approach it.

The inherited home in Alabama.

A 53-year-old professional inherited her late mother's home — free and clear. She's busy, has no interest in managing a renovation, and wants to "clear some cash and stick it in the stock market."

What structures would you consider? What questions would you ask her before making any offer? We'll dig into it next week.

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